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ClearLife

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

   Last Updated February 1, 2005 

     scroll down to view John's schedule


SAMPLES OF RECENT MEDIA

ABC News 20/20 Interview with Dr. Nancy Snyderman in San Francisco, On The Disadvantages Of Attachment Parenting.

The Friels were featured for an hour on the Oprah Winfrey Show  on "The 7 Worst Things Parents Do."

MSNBC "Internight" John commenting on parental responsibility for their own children's violence, addiction, in regard to the Littleton tragedy.

John was also featured in a lengthy article for parents on how to talk to teens about tragedy, violence, racism, and risk in USA TODAY and has been featured in numerous smaller newspapers around the U.S.

Interview with Marcia Clark on radio station KRLA-AM 1110

Dr. Toni Grant Show   Nationally syndicated radio broadcast, on The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do

Child Magazine , interview on why it is good for mothers to have close women friends, and to go out with them on a fairly regular basis.

Parents Magazine , Ten Discipline Sins

Redbook Magazine  "Mommy Strategies: Don't Be Your Kid's Best Friend" John Friel on not being your child's best friend and signs if you are making this parenting mistake.

Fox Television , The Parent Table, Interview with Linda Friel

Northwest Afternoon , one-hour live television appearance in Seattle followed by book signings at 2 Barnes & Noble Bookstores in the Seattle area.

They also did individual interviews about their new book on 25 different tv news stations around the U.S. Cities included Washington, D.C., Phoenix, Detroit, Knoxville, Seattle, San Diego, Philadelphia, Memphis, Dallas, Tampa-St. Petersburg, Charleston WV, Miami, Cincinnati, Chicago, Indianapolis, St. Louis, Asheville NC, Cleveland, Minneapolis, Denver, and Salt Lake City.

John has been featured on hundreds of radio programs throughout the United States, providing expert commentary on parenting, relationships, teens, families, and why Americans need to finally grow up.

John C. Friel, Ph.D. is a dynamic, stimulating, internationally-recognized speaker as well as a skilled clinician who blends solid theory and practice along with humor and clear organization so that seminar participants are able to grasp, comprehend, retain, and apply complex material in a relatively brief period of time. He is a psychologist in private practice in St. Paul, Minnesota, has sold over 350,000 books co-authored with his wife, Linda, and is the national director of the ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program.

Since 1980, John has consulted, trained, conducted seminars, and presented engaging keynote addresses for business and industry, hospitals, mental health clinics, government agencies, lawyers, doctors, and many, many more. A small sample of his past clients include:

Young Presidents Organization (YPO) Chicago

The Gillette Company

NCR Comten

U. S. West Communications

The United States Army

University of Minnesota Medical School

Minnesota State Bar Association

Graco Corporation

Telemarketing Manager's Association of MN

Charter Nightingale Hospital, London, England

Aeisiri Treatment Center, Co. Tipperary, Ireland

And countless others

Over the years, John has presented, from one hour up to four days, on the following topics, and many more that are related to these:

Healthy Relationships

Sexuality

Men's Issues

Victim-Perpetrator Dynamics

Work Systems/Family Systems

Capitalizing On Your Management Strengths

Alcoholism And Other Addictions

The Price Of Painful Families

Creative Conflict Resolution

Team Building

Stress

Corporate Spirituality

If you are interested in having John speak for your organization, he can be contacted at:

Friel Associates/ClearLife/Lifeworks
P.O. Box 120148
New Brighton, MN 55112-0013
Office (651) 628-0220     Fax  (651)628-4909

Friel Associates ClearLife/Reno
325 Flint Street
Reno, NV 
  89501
Office  (775) 337-0299 

A SCHEDULE OF JOHN'S SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS THAT ARE OPEN TO THE PUBLIC FOLLOWS. THESE WILL BE UPDATED FAIRLY REGULARLY.  PRIVATE, CORPORATE CONSULTING IS NOT LISTED.    
  

John's Partial 2005 Schedule--New Items Will Be Added As They Develop  (scroll down farther for previous years)

February 23, 2005  Relationship Therapy: Clinical Demonstrations and Applications University of Nevada Medical School Department of Psychiatry, Reno, NV      9:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

February 24, 2005  Building Healthy Relationships to Prevent Relapse and Identification and Appropriate Responses to Feelings for ACoA's Las Vegas Hilton, Las Vegas, NV   Ninth Renewal Convention on Adult Children, Recovery, and Trauma  U.S. Journal Training, Inc.     800-851-9100

March 4 & 5, 2005  Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas Contact: Carrie Gottstein 763/509-9631 -- Part I

March 9, 2005   Differentiation, Integration, Family History, and the Life Review: Theory and Practice        Sanford Center for Aging, University of Nevada, Reno  800 Haskell Street 775/784-4774 

March 15, 2005   Governor's Conference on Men's Health --High Sierra Area Health Education Center Conference -- Reno, NV  Men's Health In The 21st Century: Anger, Addiction, and Alienation

March 18 & 19, 2005  Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas Contact: Carrie Gottstein 763/509-9631 -- Part II

May 18, 2005   2nd Annual Substance Abuse Services Executive Director's Institute May 18-19, 2005, Oklahoma City, OK   "Is This All There Is?  Reinvigorating Your Career and Life-Trajectory" Keynote Speech

May 20 or 21, 2005   London, England    UK/European Symposium on Addictive Disorders, Riverbank Park PLaza opposite Houses of Parliament  Workshops on Healthy Relationships and Recovery, and ACoA Issues info at http://www.ukesad.org

June 16-19, 2005 Young Presidents' Organization (YPO) John will be conducting a three-day retreat for fathers and their teen sons in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Open only to YPO members. http://www.ypo.org

November 4-5 or 11-12 Annual Adult Children of Alcoholics Convention, San Diego, CA

2004

For 2004 ClearLife Clinic Schedule, also go to  Clinic page 

January 1-4  Clients in Reno office

January 5-14  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

January 14-24 Clients in Reno office

Janury 16 & 17  Weekend Intensive Couple Session

January 20   Nevada State Psychological Association dinner meeting and ceu seminar

January 26-February 3  Clients in Minneapolis/St. Paul office

February 4-15 Clients in Reno office

February 11 Sanford Center For Aging Living The Legacy at the Promenade

February 12 Sanford Center For Aging Living The Legacy at the Hyatt

February 14  Nevada State Psychological Association -- Talk to psychologists on: I'm Disappointed, I Think I'll Shoot You: How The Self-Esteem Movement Is Hurting America's Children

February 16-24 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

February 20 & 21  Part I: Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Best Western Thunderbird Hotel near the MSP airport, Bloomington, MN CONTACT CARRIE GOTTSTEIN AT 763-509-9631 TO REGISTER

February 21 Weekend Intensive Couple Session

February 25-March 7  Clients in Reno office

February 25  Integrating Family-of-Origin Work and Differentiation Theory In Couples Therapy All-day training seminar for third-year psychiatry residents at the University of Nevada Reno Medical School, Department of Psychiatry

March 5  Business of Practice Network (BOPN) Psychologically Healthy Workplace Award meeting

March 8-16 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

March 12 & 13 Part II: Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Best Western Thunderbird Hotel near the MSP airport, Bloomington, MN CONTACT CARRIE GOTTSTEIN AT 763-509-9631 TO REGISTER

March 17-28 Clients in Reno office

March 26 & 27   Weekend Intensive Couple Session

March 29-April 6  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

April 7-18  Clients in Reno office

April 9  Business Of Practice Network/Psychologically Healthy Workplace Award Meeting NV State Psychological Ass'n

April 15-18  ClearLife Therapy Intensive (Clinic) in Reno-Tahoe, NV

April 19-27  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

April 28- May 9 Clients in Reno office

April 29  Professional Training Seminar presented at the Nevada State Mental Health Center/Hospital on "Couples Therapy, Victim and Perpetrator Dynamics, and Differentiation Theory "

May 7-9 Nevada State Psychological Association Annual Conference, Reno, NV

May 10-18  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

May 19-30   Clients in Reno office

May 31-June 9 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

June 10 - 19 Clients in Reno office

June 21-30 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

June 24-27 ClearLife Clinic Minneapolis/St. Paul

July 1-11 Clients in Reno office

July 12-21 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

July 12-15 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas

July 22-31  Clients in Reno office

August 2-11 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

August 12-22  Clients in Reno office

August 21 Nevada State Psychological Association Strategic Planning Meeting Las Vegas, NV

August 23-31  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

September 1- 5 Clients in Reno office

September 6-9 Vacation

September 9  NSPA Social

September 9-11  Clients in Reno office

September 13-22 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

September 22-October 2  Clients in Reno office

October 4-13  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

October 7-10, 2004  ClearLife Clinic Minneapolis/St. Paul

October 14-23, 2004  Clients in Reno office

October 21-24   ClearLife Clinic in Reno, Nevada      (POSTPONED TO 2005)

October 25-November 3, 2004  Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office

October 29 & 30  Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas -- Part I

November 3, 2004 Upper Midwest Conference on Adolescence and Mental Health, Holiday Inn Arden Hills (St. Paul), Minnesota  I'm Disappointed, I Think I'll Shoot You: How The Self Esteem Movement Is Hurting America's Children

November 6, 2004 --The Roots Of Addiction: Digging In So You Can Grow Again All-day workshop for the general public at Inn By The Lake, South Shore, Lake Tahoe

November 15, 2004  High Sierra Area Health Education Conference on Men-- Reno, NV  Anger, Addiction, and Alienation and  Overmothered-Underfathered: The Betrayed Male Syndrome (High Sierra AHEC Regrets to inform us that their conference is being rescheduled for March 15, 2005)

November 19 & 20, 2004  Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas -- Part II

November 24-28, 2004  Attending and presenting at the Renaissance Weekend Hilton Head Island -- RenaissanceWeekend.org

December 10, 2004 Speaking at the University of Stirling, Stirling, Scotland, U.K. -- Where William Wallace "Braveheart" won the Battle of Stirling Bridge -- Topic: Relationships and Victim-Perpetrator Dynamics and Differentiation


                                                      2003

January 10-12 2003 Weekend Client Intensive, St. Paul, MN

January 15-19, 2003 Class co-taught with psychologist Roberta Ferguson at University of Nevada Medical School

January 23, 2003 Rick Center for Gifted Children -- University of Denver -- "The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do" and "The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do."

January 31, February 1, 7, 8, 2003  "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Ramada Airport Motel, Bloomington, MN CONTACT CARRIE GOTTSTEIN AT 763-509-9631 TO REGISTER

February 15, 2003 Saturday -- Fourth Presbyterian Church, Chicago, Illinois The event is open to the public. Anyone can contact DMacIntyre@fourthchurch.org for more information, or contact Elise Magers through the above e-mail address. She can also be reached by phone at 312-787-8425. The 7 Best Things (Happy) Couples Do Full-Day Workshop for the general public, 9 a.m. - 4 p.m.

February 19-23, 2003 Class co-taught with psychologist Roberta Ferguson at University of Nevada Medical School

March 1, 2003 Saturday -- All-Day Workshop Presentation in the Twin Cities on Parenting Issues *** Sponsored by Oak Hill Montessori School in Shoreview, MN Contact Nancy Keane at 298-1120*** Location and Times To Be Announced

March 5-9, 2003 Class co-taught with psychologist Roberta Ferguson at University of Nevada Medical School

March 20-23, 2003  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

March 28, 2003  Presentation College, Groton SD The Price Of Painful Families For the sociology department's talk in honor of National Social Work Week

April 24 (or 25, 26) 2003  U.S. Journal Training Conference on Adolescence, Las Vegas, NV Topics will include The Feelings Beneath The Rage, The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do, and I'm Disapointed, I Think I'll Shoot You: How Indulgence And Emotional Abandonment Are Hurting America's Children

April 30-May 4, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

May 8-10, 2003  John will be Chairing the U.S. Journal Training 2nd Annual Conference on Intimacy and Sexuality in New Orleans, Louisiana -- Keynote speakers will be David Schnarch, Ph.D., Noel Larson, Ph.D., and John Friel, Ph.D.

May 15, 2003 Keynote Speech and workshops presented at the Parents Helping Parents statewide annual conference, Boston, MA

May 15-18, 2003 John will be attending the Nevada State Psychological Association's Annual Conference in Las Vegas, NV

June 26-29, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, St. Paul, MN

July 14-17, 2003 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas

October 2, 2003 "The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do" Free talk for the general public, Sioux Falls, SD, sponsored by Volunteers of America, 605/339-1199 x324 7:00 - 8:30 p.m.

October 3, 2003 "Preventing Burnout In The Helping Professions," Volunteers of America, Sioux Falls, SD 10:30-noon

October 8-12, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

October 23-26, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, St. Paul, MN

November 21 & 22 and December 5 & 6, 2003 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas

JOHN'S 2002 SCHEDULE 

February 20-24  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

March 7, 2002  Totino Grace High School, Minneapolis, MN,  The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do, Thursday evening, 7:00 - 9:00 p.m.

March 7-10, 2002  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

Mid-March, 2002  John and Linda's new book on intimacy and relationships will be released.

April 17-19, 2002 Las Vegas, Nevada           First Annual U.S. Journal Training National Conference on   Sexuality And Intimacy: Conflict, Passion, And Power              Conference Chair:  John C. Friel, Ph.D.        Keynote Speakers: 1)  David Schnarch, Ph.D. author of Passionate Marriage  2) John C. Friel  3) Patricia Love, author of Hot Monogamy and The Emotional Incest Syndrome     Other speakers include William Glasser, founder of Reality Therapy; James Maddock and Noel Larson, international experts on sexuality, working with incest families, and violence and abuse in intimate relationships, and many more...

May 4-5, 2002 John Attends the Nevada State Psychological Association's Conference, Lake Tahoe

May 9-12, 2002  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK

May 8, 2002 The 7 Best Things (Happy) Couples Do --A Chance To Change Foundation, Oklahoma City

June 5-9, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, CA

June 8, 2002 Workshop: The 7 Best Things Happy Couples Do -- Orange County, CA

June 12, 2002 Commencement Address - Sobriety High School-Minneapolis, Minnesota

June20-23, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Dayton, Ohio

July 11-14, 2002  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

June 24-27, 2002 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Thunderbird Hotel, Bloomington, MN

July 27, 2002   Reno, NV   Saturday, 9:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. "The 7 Best Things Happy Couples Do: From The Therapist's Perspective." Professional training seminar for psychologists, clinical social workers, LMFT's, etc. 100% of the proceeds, including John's fees and expenses, will be donated to the Nevada State Psychological Association to help fund their various activities and projects around the state.

September  26 and 27, 2002 -  South Dakota -- Dakotas Conference -- Professional Training on Dual Diagnosis Treatment, Parenting, and Responsible Intimacy as a Path to Relapse Prevention

October 2-6, 2002   ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

October 17-20, 2002   ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

October 24-27, 2002   ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK

October 30-November 3, 2002   ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, CA

November 3, 2002 Totino Grace High School Minneapolis, MN-- Talk for parents. Topic to be announced

November 6, 2002 University of Nevada Reno Psychology Department -- Colloquium on Couples Therapy and Victim-Perpetrator Dynamics 4 p.m.

November 7, 2002 University of Nevada Reno -- Talk for students sponsored by Psi Chi, on Healthy Men, Healthy Women, Healthy Relationships 3-5 p.m.

November 15 & 16 and 22 & 23, 2002 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Kelly Inn, St. Paul, MN

December 5 & 6, 2002  Mountain Area Health Education Center (MAHEC), Asheville, North Carolina      Evening talk to the general public and all-day professional training workshop the following day on The 7 Best Things (Happy) Couples Do

***********************************2001 SCHEDULE********************* ***************

February 6, 2001 St. Joe's Junior High School, Sylvania (Toledo) Ohio, talk to students on "Positive Addiction, Creating Your Dreams, And Growing Up."

February 6, 2001 St. Joe's PTO, talk to the general public, Sylvania (Toledo) Ohio, "The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do, 7:30-9:30 p.m.

February 15, 2001 Jefferson High School, Bloomington, MN, Talk to parents and staff of the ENCORE Program on "Healthy Parenting And Parenting Traps In The New Millennium."

February 21 - March 28, 2001 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered in Champlin, MN

March 2- 17, 2001 Weeeknd version of above class, offered at the Thunderbird Hotel, Bloomington, MN

March 8-11, 2001  Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul,MN

March 14, 2001 Interview with Scholastic Magazine on the 7 Best Things Smart Teens Do.

March 21, 2001 Lake Area Counselor's Association, Luncheon Keynote Address, 12:30-2:30 p.m., "Working With Dysfunctional Families."

April 19, 2001 Radio interview on teens, Kansas City, MO

April 25-29, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

May 2, 2001 Talk for professionals--"I'm Disappointed, I Think I'll Shoot You: How The Self Esteem Movement And Other Fads Are Ruining America's Children." Oklahoma City, OK A Chance To Change Foundation

May 2-6, 2001  Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK

May 11, 2001  Radio Show, 4-5 p.m.

May 15, 2001 Rotary, St. Paul, Minnesota The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do

June 4, 2001 West Virginia University Medical School -- Addiction Training Institute -- Keynote speech and three workshops: 1) I'm Disappointed: I Think I'll Shoot You. How The Self-Esteem Movement And Other Fads Are Ruining America's Children      2) When Is It Anger, When Is It Rage?     3) The Feelings Beneath The Rage: Teaching Emotional Competence As A Therapeutic Solution To Anger Problems     4) Using Genograms In Assessing The Sources Of Anger Problems

June 10, 2001 The Dipsea Race 7.1 miles over the rough terrain of  Mt. Tamalpais from Mill Valley, CA to Stinson Beach, if John gets in again this year. Only 1500 are admitted each year. http://www.dipsea.org

June 25-28, 2001 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Kelly Inn, St. Paul, MN

July 12-15, 2001  Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

July 19, 2001  New Book Manuscript Completed ** First Grandchild Born!

July 25-29 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, California

October 3-7, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

October 24-December 19, 2001 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered in Hopkins, MN

November 1-4, 2001  Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

November 7 & 8, 2001 All Ohio Counselor's Conference -- Keynote Speech -- "Competent Adults Create Children With A Strong Spirit: How To Repair The Damage Of The Self-Esteem Movement By Helping Adults Help Children."    Pre-Session Workshop -- "You Can't Be 'Married' Unless You're Old Enough To Date."

November 8-11, 2001 Health Communications, Inc. Partners In Publishing Weekend.

December 1, 2001      9 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.  Sioux Falls, SD     Creating And Sustaining Intimate Relationships: An All-Day Workshop For Couples 

December 6-9, 2001  Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK

  JOHN'S 2000 SCHEDULE APPEARS BELOW 

January 28-30, 2000 John & Linda Friel, "ClearLife Parenting: A 2-Day Program To Clarify The Tough Issues"

February 11, 2000  Chicago, Young Presidents Organization

February 16, 2000  Clearlife Clinic, Orange County, CA

February 23, 2000  St. Thomas Class begins

March 9, 2000   Clearlife Clinic, Minneapolis

March 15-16, 2000  Taping of professional Parenting Video, published by Allyn and Bacon, part of a series to include John Gray, Harriet Lerner, William S. Pollack, and Harville Hendrix, among others.

March 23-24 , 2000 Dayton/Kettering, Ohio

March 29, 2000  Clearlife Clinic, Oklahoma City

April 10, 2000  Minot, ND

April 15, 2000 Las Vegas, Prof'l Counselor Conference On Anger - "I'm Disappointed: I Think I'll Shoot You" and "The Feelings Beneath The Rage"

April 26, 2000  Clearlife Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD

May 13, 2000 Washington, D.C. Prof'l Counselor Conference On Anger

June 11, 2000 John runs the Dipsea Race from Mill Valley to Stinson Beach, California

June 21, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Orange County, CA

June 26-29  Graduate class for teachers, etc., with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, on Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Kelly Inn, St. Paul, MN.

July 20, 2000  Clearlife Clinic, Minneapolis

July 27, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Minneapolis ADDED DUE TO DEMAND

September 18-24  Seoul, South Korea, U.S.Army -- Training on parenting and dysfunctional families.

October, 2000  John & Linda's New Book--The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do --Released by Health Communications, Inc.  Watch this page for details.  Book is in progress and on schedule.

October 4-8  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic -- Sioux Falls, SD

October 11, 25, 26, and November 1, 8, 9 Graduate class for teachers, etc., with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, on Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families

October 13 Professional Counselor conference on Adolescence -- Chicago

October 18-22 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, CA

November 2-5 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN

November 11 The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do Sheraton Midway Hotel, St. Paul, MN

November 16-19 Dayton, Ohio  ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic

November 30 - December 3  Oklahoma City, OK ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic

JOHN'S 1999 SCHEDULE APPEARS BELOW *******
January 13 - 14, 1999 Omaha, Nebraska and Council Bluffs -- In-Service training for Alegent Hospital System staff, therapists, etc., on the spiritual dimensions of therapy and case management. Spirituality And Mental Health:  Helping Clients Develop A Spiritual Orientation

February 24-April 7, 1999 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families.  Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.

February 17-21, 1999.  ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

February 18, 1999  Have A Great Marriage! 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Talk for the general public.  Pathways To Discovery, 1853 Mt. Langley, Fountain Valley, CA 714/964-2267

March 11-14, 1999. Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220

March 24-28, 1999  Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program  Chance To Change Foundation, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma,
405/840-9000

April 10, 1999 Our Annual Spring Workshop **  Holiday Inn, Arden Hills, Minnesota,  9:00 a.m. to 12 noon **  HOW TO AVOID THE 7 WORST THINGS PARENTS DO **  Copies of John & Linda's New Book Will Be Available For Purchase.  Workshop Cost:  $20 preregistered before April 3, 1999 - $25 at the door.  Call ClearLife Productions at: (651) 628-0220 or fax your credit card information  to (612) 904-0340 or mail check to Friel/ClearLife  PO Box 120148  New Brighton, MN  55112-0013

April 16-17 and April 30 & May 1, 1999 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families.  Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.  Course presented at Wadena technical College, Wadena, Minnesota.

April 21-25, 1999  ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691

June 23-27, 1999  ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

June 24, 1999  How To Avoid The Seven Worst Things Parents Do, Pathways To Discovery, 714-964-2267, Fountain Valley, California  Thursday, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.  John & Linda's Books Will Be Available For Sale

June 28-July 1  Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families.  Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.

July  13-14 Book signing, CBA, Orlando, FL

July 22-25, 1999  Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220

August 7, 1999 Book signing at Waldenbooks, Knollwood Mall, Highway 7 & 169, Minneapolis, MN

September 23 Hennepin County Home School, Sexual Offender Unit -- Staff Training, Spiritual Healing And Mental Health

September 24, 1999  Mountain Area Health Education Center, The 7 Worst Things Parents Do, Asheville, North Carolina, professional training

September 25, 1999  Book trade show, St. Paul, Minnesota, Book Signings

September 29-October 3, 1999 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691

October 20-24, 1999  ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

October 26 & 27, 1999  Alegent Hospital, Omaha, Nebraska  Conference on Spirituality, and One-Day training for professionals.  Contact Dr. Jane Smith, Alegent Mental Health, (402) 449-4650

October 28, November 3, 11, 17, December 8, 15, 1999 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families.  Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.

November 4, 1999  Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220

November 10, 1999  All-day workshop  Oklahoma City, The 7 Worst Things Parents Do, Chance To Change Foundation 405/840-9000

November 13, 1999  Saturday  All-Day Workshop:  The 7 Worst Things Parents Do  Rochester, Minnesota, Century High School, sponsored by Rochester Community Education.

December 1-4, 1999  ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Oklahoma City, OK  Chance To Change Foundation, 405/840-9000
 
 
 

*** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998

February 4-8, 1998, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

February 18, March 4, 11, 18, 25, April 1, 1998 , Self Control And Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living In The 21st Century. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN

February 26, 1998 Oklahoma Drug And Alcohol/Professional Counselor Association, 21st Annual Conference, Oklahoma City, OK, 405-793-1545

February 27 and February 28, talk for general public Friday evening, and Lifeworks Alumni Workshop all day Saturday Topics To Be Announced Contact Priority One Resources, Sioux Falls, SD 605/336-3691

March 12 - 15, 1998, Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612/628-0220

April 22-26, 1998 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691

April 27, 1998 Healthy Relationships, Healthy Boundaries, Healthy Recovery 7:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. St. Stephen's Lutheran Church, Co Road E, White Bear Lake, Minnesota, Adult Children Of Alcoholics Meeting

May 2-3, 1998 John's 37th 8th Grade Grammar School Reunion at Ross School, in Ross, California. It is also the 90th Anniversary Of The Founding Of The School.

May 9, 1998, 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 noon Good Shame, Bad Shame...Your Shame, My Shame Our Annual Saturday Morning Spring Workshop, Holiday Inn, Arden Hills (St. Paul) Minnesota Contact Friel Associates/Lifeworks 612/628-0220. As A Public Service, We Are Offering This Workshop For $10 If Pre-Registered, Or $15 At The Door.

June 15 - 18, 1998 Self Control And Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living In The 21st Century. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN, offered in Hopkins, MN

June 24-28, 1998 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

June 25, 1998 How To Mess Up Your Life In Five Easy Lessons, Pathways To Discovery, 7:00 - 9:00 p.m., 18350 Mt. Langley St., Fountain Valley, California 714-964-2267.

July 6 - 9, 1998 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN, offered in Apple Valley, MN

July 23-26, 1998, Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612/628-0220

August 8, 1998 John & Linda's 17th Wedding Anniversary.

September 10-11, 1998 London England, National Association Of Children Of Alcoholics (England). Thursday Evening--Good Shame, Bad Shame...Your Shame, My Shame. Friday all day--Love, Marriage, Sex, And Kids: Supporting Health, Strength, And Clarity In Today's Families

September 17-18, 1998 Chance To Change Foundation, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma-- Thursday evening workshop on relationships, and all-day Friday workshop for therapists on clinical topics such as victim-perpetrator dynamics in dual disorder cases

September 30 - October 4, 1998, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691

October 7 - November 18, 1998  Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families.  Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.  Offered in Bloomington, MN.

October 14-18, 1998, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

November 5-8, 1998, Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220

November 12, 1998 7:00 p.m. INTEGRIS and Chance To Change Foundation  (405) 951-2277 Your Relationships Are Better Than You Think Oklahoma City, OK

November 13, 1998 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Moving Clients From Victimhood To Adulthood Francis Tuttle Vo-Tech, Oklahoma City, OK (405) 840-9000 CHANCE TO CHANGE FOUNDATION and Integris

November 22, 1998 Oakton Community College Sixth Annual Men's Day, Des Plaines, Illinois, Keynote presentation: Developing Accountability, Honor, And Integrity, and workshop presentation: Over-Mothered, Under-Fathered: The Betrayed Male Syndrome
 

*** 1997 *** 1997 *** 1997 *** 1997 *** 1997 *** 1997

February 12-16, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County CA, Pathways To Discovery, 714-964-2267

February 5, February 19, February 26, March 5, March 12, March 19, "Self Control and Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living in the 21st Century" Graduate continuing education class, 2 credits offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.

March 13-16 , 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, St. Paul, MN. 612-628-0220

April 4, 1997 The Soul Of Adulthood Unity Church Memphis, Tennessee Contact Jim West (901) 726-7396

April 4, 1997 Barnes & Noble Bookstore 6685 Poplar Ave, Germantown, TN 4 - 5:30 p.m. Mini-lecture and book

signing

April 11, 1997, Davenport, Iowa, Healthy Women, Healthy Men, Healthy Relationships. All-day seminar for professionals and the general public

April 11, 1997 Healthy Relationships , Recovery Celebration Alumni dinner 6-9:00 p.m.

Both of the above are sponsored by Genesis Medical Center, Davenport, Iowa 319-421-1000.

April 16-20, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD Contact Friel Associates, St. Paul

April 27, 1997 Sunday, Most People Have Good Relationships And Don't Know It, Colonial Church Of Edina, Edina, MN, 10:30 a.m.

MAY 10, 1997 *** !!SPECIAL PROGRAM!! *** 9:00 A.M. - 12 NOON "YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE BETTER THAN YOU THINK" HOLIDAY INN, ARDEN HILLS, MINNESOTA $20 PRE-REGISTERED, $25 AT THE DOOR *** CONTACT FRIEL ASSOCIATES/CLEARLIFE 612/628-0220 OR FAX 904-0340***

June 12-15, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612-628-0220.

June 23-26 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families Graduate Continuing Education Class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN

July 14-17, 1997 Self Control And Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living In The 21st Century. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN

July 30-August 3, 1997 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program, Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California (714) 964-2267

August 7-10, 1997 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612-628-0220

LONDON, ENGLAND !!*** Friday, August 29, 1997 ***7 p.m. - 9 p.m.***"Your Relationship Is Better Than You Think" Hinde Street Methodist Church Hall, Thayer Street, London W1 *** Contact Hilary Henriques, NACOA, PO Box 64, Fishponds, Bristol BS16 2UH ***Tel. 0117-924-8005 ************************** ************************ Saturday, August 30, 1997 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. "Moving Clients Into Adulthood." Same venue and contact person. Evening talk is for both professionals and the general public. Saturday talk is primarily for professionals, but general public is welcome to attend, and should benefit from the information presented.

September 17-19 Counseling Skills For The New Millennium, Professional Counselor and U.S. Journal Training Conference, Charlotte, North Carolina **John's speaking topics, on Friday, September 19, 1997: Understanding And Treating Victim And Perpetrator Dynamics In Dual Disorder Cases and also Short Term Couples Therapy: Integrating Family Of Origin And Brief Therapy Techniques**Contact U.S. Journal Training at 800/851-9100 ext 220

September 24-28, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN

October 8, 115, 22, 29, November 12, 19 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Eisenhower Community Center, Hopkins, MN 5:00 - 9:00 p.m. Graduate Continuing Education Class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN Contact Carrie Gottstein, (612) 509-9631

October 23-26, 1997, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612-628-0220.

October 25, 1997, Saturday, Las Vegas, Nevada Professional Counselor & US Journal Training National Conference on Counseling Skills. John's Topic: "Learned Optimism: Teaching Clients To Reframe Themselves Right Out Of The Victim Role"

November 2, 1997 Sunday, House Of Hope Presbyterian Church, 797 Summit Avenue, St. Paul, MN 10:15 - 11:15 a.m., Powerful Men,Spiritual Men: Becoming The Best You Can Be

November 5-9 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.

December 6, 1997, 1:30 - 2:30 p.m. AA Retreat, Franciscan Retreat House, Chaska, Minnesota, Came To Believe..., Contact Fr. Ken Bartsch, 447-2182

JOHN'S 1996 SCHEDULE APPEARS BELOW*********************

January 13, 1996 Unity South Church, Bloomington, MN 9-noon.

"The Soul Of Adulthood."

January 17-21, 1996 "ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program",

Priority One Resources, Sioux Falls, SD

January 24-25, 1996 Charleston, SC 26th Annual Working Conference of the Pastoral Care Committee of the South Carolina Department of Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse Services

February 7-11, 1996 "ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program -- Pathways to Discovery, Fountain Valley, California

February 8, 1996 Victim And Perpetrator Dynamics presented at the 2nd Annual San Diego Dual Disorder Conference, Hotel Del Coronado, San Diego, California

February 21, 28, March 6, 13, 20, 27 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Continuing Education Class offered for teachers, with credit given through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, Minnesota

February 24, 1996 Journey In Recovery, St. Christopher's Church, Nisswa, Minnesota, 9-4, Saturday Healthy Relationships, Identity and Spirituality

March 1, 1996 Minnesota Department of Children, Families, And Learning Fourth Annual Minnesota Family Literacy Conference, Marriott Southwest, Minnetonka, MN "What Makes Families Healthy? What Makes Families Hurt?" 9-noon.

March 8, 1996 1st Oregon Dual Disorder Conference, Portland, Oregon, Victim And Perpetrator Dynamics Contact: 206-646-9148

March 14, 1996 3rd Annual Florida Dual Disorder Conference: A Special Focus On Children, Adolescents, and Family. Grosvenor Resort At Walt Disney World Village, Orlando, FL Contact: 800-441-5569

March 16, 1996 Unity South Church, Bloomington, MN The Grown-Up Man, 9-noon.

March 20-24, 1996 "ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program" Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN

May 2, 1996 1st Mid Atlantic Dual Disorder Conference: A Special Focus On Personality Disorders Radisson Plaza Lord Baltimore, Baltimore, MD Contact: 800-441-5569

May 8-12, 1996 "ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program" Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California

May 9, 1996 The Dignity Of Loneliness, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California 714-964-2267

May 17, 1996 Mason City, Iowa Parents United 9-3 Beyond Emotional Flooding, Building Healthy Relationships 515-424-5232

June 20, 1996 "ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program" Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN

July 15-18, 1996 Self-Control And Personal responsibility: Key tools for living in the 21st century. 2 Credit Graduate Continuing Education class for teachers, counselors, psychologists, etc. offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas St. Paul, Minnesota.

July 26-28, 1996 Lifeworks II for people who have done some therapy and family of origin work and are ready to move into healthy adulthood, Sioux Falls, SD, Priority One Resources, 605-336-3691.

July 29- August 1, 1996 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. 2 credit graduate continuing education class for teachers, counselors, psychologists, etc. offered through the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, MN.

Unity Church South, Bloomington, Minnesota, "We Don't Have A Right To Be Happy", talk given at both the 9:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m. church services.

August 8-11, 1996 Lifeworks Clinic, Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California.

August 8, 1996 "Good Shame, Bad Shame, Your Shame, My Shame", 7-9:00 p.m., Pathways To Discovery, Orange County, CA.

August 15-18, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates St. Paul, MN.

October 10-13, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Priority One Resources.

October 31 - November 3, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, CA, contact Lyndel Brennan 714-964-2267.

Thursday, October 31 Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, CA "The Grown Up Man: Heroes, Healing, Honor, Hurt, Hope", talk presented from 7-9:00 p.m.

November 7-10, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN

November 14, 1996 Sioux Falls, SD "Most People Have Good Relationships But Don't Know It" sponsored by Great Plains Psychological Services, Sioux Falls, SD, 605-338-8278.

November 15, 1996 Sioux Falls, SD "Moving Clients Into Adulthood", One day clinical training workshop for psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, chemical dependency counselors, ministers, etc. sponsored through Great Plains Psychological Services, Sioux Falls, 605-338-8278.

December 8, 1996 House of Hope Presbyterian Church Summit Avenue, St. Paul, MN. Fathers and; Sons: Celebrating Mutual Respect, on Honor, and Integrity 10:15 to 11:15 a.m.


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