John C. Friel, Ph.D. is a dynamic, stimulating, internationally-recognized speaker as well as a skilled clinician who blends solid theory and practice along with humor and clear organization so that seminar participants are able to grasp, comprehend, retain, and apply complex material in a relatively brief period of time. He is a psychologist in private practice in St. Paul, Minnesota, has sold over 350,000 books co-authored with his wife, Linda, and is the national director of the ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program.
Since 1980, John has consulted, trained, conducted seminars, and presented engaging keynote addresses for business and industry, hospitals, mental health clinics, government agencies, lawyers, doctors, and many, many more. A small sample of his past clients include:
Young Presidents Organization (YPO) Chicago
The Gillette Company
NCR Comten
U. S. West Communications
The United States Army
University of Minnesota Medical School
Minnesota State Bar Association
Graco Corporation
Telemarketing Manager's Association of MN
Charter Nightingale Hospital, London, England
Aeisiri Treatment Center, Co. Tipperary, Ireland
And countless others
Over the years, John has presented, from one hour up to four days, on the following topics, and many more that are related to these:
Healthy Relationships
Sexuality
Men's Issues
Victim-Perpetrator Dynamics
Work Systems/Family Systems
Capitalizing On Your Management Strengths
Alcoholism And Other Addictions
The Price Of Painful Families
Creative Conflict Resolution
Team Building
Stress
Corporate Spirituality
If you are interested in having John speak for your organization, he can be contacted at:
Friel Associates/ClearLife/Lifeworks
P.O. Box 120148
New Brighton, MN 55112-0013
Office (651) 628-0220 Fax (651)628-4909
Friel Associates ClearLife/Reno
325 Flint Street
Reno, NV 89501
Office (775) 337-0299
A SCHEDULE OF JOHN'S SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS THAT
ARE OPEN TO THE PUBLIC FOLLOWS. THESE WILL BE UPDATED
FAIRLY REGULARLY. PRIVATE, CORPORATE CONSULTING IS NOT LISTED.
John's Partial 2005 Schedule--New Items Will Be Added As They Develop (scroll down farther for previous years)
February 23, 2005 Relationship Therapy: Clinical Demonstrations and Applications University of Nevada Medical School Department of Psychiatry, Reno, NV 9:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
February 24, 2005 Building Healthy Relationships to Prevent Relapse and Identification and Appropriate Responses to Feelings for ACoA's Las Vegas Hilton, Las Vegas, NV Ninth Renewal Convention on Adult Children, Recovery, and Trauma U.S. Journal Training, Inc. 800-851-9100
March 4 & 5, 2005 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas Contact: Carrie Gottstein 763/509-9631 -- Part I
March 9, 2005 Differentiation, Integration, Family History, and the Life Review: Theory and Practice Sanford Center for Aging, University of Nevada, Reno 800 Haskell Street 775/784-4774
March 15, 2005 Governor's Conference on Men's Health --High Sierra Area Health Education Center Conference -- Reno, NV Men's Health In The 21st Century: Anger, Addiction, and Alienation
March 18 & 19, 2005 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas Contact: Carrie Gottstein 763/509-9631 -- Part II
May 18, 2005 2nd Annual Substance Abuse Services Executive Director's Institute May 18-19, 2005, Oklahoma City, OK "Is This All There Is? Reinvigorating Your Career and Life-Trajectory" Keynote Speech
May 20 or 21, 2005 London, England UK/European Symposium on Addictive Disorders, Riverbank Park PLaza opposite Houses of Parliament Workshops on Healthy Relationships and Recovery, and ACoA Issues info at http://www.ukesad.org
June 16-19, 2005 Young Presidents' Organization (YPO) John will be conducting a three-day retreat for fathers and their teen sons in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Open only to YPO members. http://www.ypo.org
November 4-5 or 11-12 Annual Adult Children of Alcoholics Convention, San Diego, CA
2004
For 2004 ClearLife Clinic Schedule, also go to Clinic page
January 1-4 Clients in Reno
office
January 5-14 Clients in
Minneapolis/St.Paul office
January 14-24 Clients in Reno
office
Janury 16 & 17 Weekend Intensive Couple Session
January 20 Nevada
State Psychological Association dinner meeting and ceu seminar
January 26-February 3
Clients in Minneapolis/St. Paul office
February 4-15 Clients in Reno
office
February 11 Sanford Center For
Aging Living The Legacy at the Promenade
February 12 Sanford Center
For Aging Living The Legacy at the Hyatt
February 14 Nevada State
Psychological Association -- Talk to psychologists on: I'm Disappointed, I Think I'll
Shoot You: How The Self-Esteem Movement Is Hurting America's Children
February
16-24 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
February
20 & 21 Part I:
Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families,
graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the
University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Best Western Thunderbird
Hotel near the MSP airport, Bloomington, MN CONTACT
CARRIE GOTTSTEIN AT 763-509-9631 TO REGISTER
February
21 Weekend Intensive Couple
Session
February
25-March 7 Clients in Reno office
February
25 Integrating
Family-of-Origin Work and Differentiation Theory In Couples Therapy All-day training seminar for third-year
psychiatry residents at the University of Nevada Reno Medical School,
Department of Psychiatry
March
5 Business of Practice
Network (BOPN) Psychologically Healthy Workplace Award meeting
March
8-16 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
March
12 & 13 Part II: Working With Adults And
Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing
education class with credit offered through the University of St.
Thomas, class offered at the Best Western Thunderbird Hotel near the
MSP airport, Bloomington, MN CONTACT CARRIE GOTTSTEIN
AT 763-509-9631 TO REGISTER
March
17-28 Clients in Reno office
March 26 & 27 Weekend Intensive Couple Session
March 29-April 6 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
April 7-18 Clients in Reno office
April 9 Business Of Practice Network/Psychologically Healthy Workplace Award Meeting NV State Psychological Ass'n
April 15-18 ClearLife Therapy Intensive (Clinic) in Reno-Tahoe, NV
April 19-27 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
April 28- May 9 Clients in Reno office
April 29 Professional Training Seminar presented at the Nevada State Mental Health Center/Hospital on "Couples Therapy, Victim and Perpetrator Dynamics, and Differentiation Theory "
May 7-9 Nevada State Psychological Association Annual Conference, Reno, NV
May 10-18 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
May 19-30 Clients in Reno office
May 31-June 9 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
June 10 - 19 Clients in Reno office
June 21-30 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
June 24-27 ClearLife Clinic Minneapolis/St. Paul
July 1-11 Clients in Reno office
July 12-21 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
July 12-15 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas
July 22-31 Clients in Reno office
August 2-11 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
August 12-22 Clients in Reno office
August 21 Nevada State Psychological Association Strategic Planning Meeting Las Vegas, NV
August 23-31 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
September 1- 5 Clients in Reno office
September 6-9 Vacation
September 9 NSPA Social
September 9-11 Clients in Reno office
September 13-22 Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
September 22-October 2 Clients in Reno office
October 4-13
Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
October 7-10, 2004
ClearLife Clinic Minneapolis/St.
Paul
October 14-23, 2004
Clients in Reno office
October 21-24
ClearLife Clinic in Reno,
Nevada (POSTPONED TO 2005)
October 25-November 3,
2004
Clients in Minneapolis/St.Paul office
October 29 & 30
Working With Adults
And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education
class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas -- Part I
November 3, 2004 Upper Midwest Conference on Adolescence and
Mental Health, Holiday Inn Arden Hills (St. Paul), Minnesota
I'm Disappointed, I
Think I'll Shoot You: How The Self Esteem Movement Is Hurting America's
Children
November 6, 2004
--The Roots Of
Addiction: Digging In So You Can Grow Again All-day workshop for the general public at Inn By The Lake,
South Shore, Lake Tahoe
November 15, 2004 High Sierra
Area Health Education Conference on Men-- Reno, NV
Anger, Addiction,
and Alienation
and
Overmothered-Underfathered: The Betrayed Male
Syndrome (High Sierra AHEC
Regrets to inform us that their conference is being rescheduled for March 15,
2005)
November 19 & 20, 2004
Working With Adults
And Children From Dysfunctional Families, graduate continuing education
class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas -- Part II
November 24-28, 2004 Attending and presenting at the
Renaissance Weekend
Hilton Head Island --
RenaissanceWeekend.org
December
10, 2004 Speaking at the University of Stirling, Stirling, Scotland, U.K. --
Where William Wallace "Braveheart" won the Battle of Stirling Bridge -- Topic:
Relationships and
Victim-Perpetrator Dynamics and Differentiation
January 10-12 2003 Weekend Client Intensive, St. Paul, MN
January 15-19, 2003 Class co-taught with psychologist Roberta Ferguson at University of Nevada Medical School
January 23, 2003 Rick Center for Gifted Children -- University of Denver -- "The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do" and "The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do."
January 31, February 1, 7, 8, 2003 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Ramada Airport Motel, Bloomington, MN CONTACT CARRIE GOTTSTEIN AT 763-509-9631 TO REGISTER
February 15, 2003 Saturday -- Fourth Presbyterian Church, Chicago, Illinois The event is open to the public. Anyone can contact DMacIntyre@fourthchurch.org for more information, or contact Elise Magers through the above e-mail address. She can also be reached by phone at 312-787-8425. The 7 Best Things (Happy) Couples Do Full-Day Workshop for the general public, 9 a.m. - 4 p.m.
February 19-23, 2003 Class co-taught with psychologist Roberta Ferguson at University of Nevada Medical School
March 1, 2003 Saturday -- All-Day Workshop Presentation in the Twin Cities on Parenting Issues *** Sponsored by Oak Hill Montessori School in Shoreview, MN Contact Nancy Keane at 298-1120*** Location and Times To Be Announced
March 5-9, 2003 Class co-taught with psychologist Roberta Ferguson at University of Nevada Medical School
March 20-23, 2003 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
March 28, 2003 Presentation College, Groton SD The Price Of Painful Families For the sociology department's talk in honor of National Social Work Week
April 24 (or 25, 26) 2003 U.S. Journal Training Conference on Adolescence, Las Vegas, NV Topics will include The Feelings Beneath The Rage, The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do, and I'm Disapointed, I Think I'll Shoot You: How Indulgence And Emotional Abandonment Are Hurting America's Children
April 30-May 4, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
May 8-10, 2003 John will be Chairing the U.S. Journal Training 2nd Annual Conference on Intimacy and Sexuality in New Orleans, Louisiana -- Keynote speakers will be David Schnarch, Ph.D., Noel Larson, Ph.D., and John Friel, Ph.D.
May 15, 2003 Keynote Speech and workshops presented at the Parents Helping Parents statewide annual conference, Boston, MA
May 15-18, 2003 John will be attending the Nevada State Psychological Association's Annual Conference in Las Vegas, NV
June 26-29, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, St. Paul, MN
July 14-17, 2003 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas
October 2, 2003 "The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do" Free talk for the general public, Sioux Falls, SD, sponsored by Volunteers of America, 605/339-1199 x324 7:00 - 8:30 p.m.
October 3, 2003 "Preventing Burnout In The Helping Professions," Volunteers of America, Sioux Falls, SD 10:30-noon
October 8-12, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
October 23-26, 2003 ClearLife Clinic, St. Paul, MN
November 21 & 22 and
December 5 & 6, 2003 "Working With Adults And Children From
Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered
through the University of St. Thomas
JOHN'S 2002 SCHEDULE
February 20-24 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
March 7, 2002 Totino Grace High School, Minneapolis, MN, The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do, Thursday evening, 7:00 - 9:00 p.m.
March 7-10, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
Mid-March, 2002 John and Linda's new book on intimacy and relationships will be released.
April 17-19, 2002 Las Vegas, Nevada First Annual U.S. Journal Training National Conference on Sexuality And Intimacy: Conflict, Passion, And Power Conference Chair: John C. Friel, Ph.D. Keynote Speakers: 1) David Schnarch, Ph.D. author of Passionate Marriage 2) John C. Friel 3) Patricia Love, author of Hot Monogamy and The Emotional Incest Syndrome Other speakers include William Glasser, founder of Reality Therapy; James Maddock and Noel Larson, international experts on sexuality, working with incest families, and violence and abuse in intimate relationships, and many more...
May 4-5, 2002 John Attends the Nevada State Psychological Association's Conference, Lake Tahoe
May 9-12, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK
May 8, 2002 The 7 Best Things (Happy) Couples Do --A Chance To Change Foundation, Oklahoma City
June 5-9, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, CA
June 8, 2002 Workshop: The 7 Best Things Happy Couples Do -- Orange County, CA
June 12, 2002 Commencement Address - Sobriety High School-Minneapolis, Minnesota
June20-23, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Dayton, Ohio
July 11-14, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
June 24-27, 2002 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Thunderbird Hotel, Bloomington, MN
July 27, 2002 Reno, NV Saturday, 9:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. "The 7 Best Things Happy Couples Do: From The Therapist's Perspective." Professional training seminar for psychologists, clinical social workers, LMFT's, etc. 100% of the proceeds, including John's fees and expenses, will be donated to the Nevada State Psychological Association to help fund their various activities and projects around the state.
September 26 and 27, 2002 - South Dakota -- Dakotas Conference -- Professional Training on Dual Diagnosis Treatment, Parenting, and Responsible Intimacy as a Path to Relapse Prevention
October 2-6, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
October 17-20, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
October 24-27, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK
October 30-November 3, 2002 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, CA
November 3, 2002 Totino Grace High School Minneapolis, MN-- Talk for parents. Topic to be announced
November 6, 2002 University of Nevada Reno Psychology Department -- Colloquium on Couples Therapy and Victim-Perpetrator Dynamics 4 p.m.
November 7, 2002 University of Nevada Reno -- Talk for students sponsored by Psi Chi, on Healthy Men, Healthy Women, Healthy Relationships 3-5 p.m.
November 15 & 16 and 22 & 23, 2002 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Kelly Inn, St. Paul, MN
December 5 & 6, 2002 Mountain Area Health Education Center (MAHEC), Asheville, North Carolina Evening talk to the general public and all-day professional training workshop the following day on The 7 Best Things (Happy) Couples Do
***********************************2001 SCHEDULE********************* ***************
February 6, 2001 St. Joe's Junior High School, Sylvania (Toledo) Ohio, talk to students on "Positive Addiction, Creating Your Dreams, And Growing Up."
February 6, 2001 St. Joe's PTO, talk to the general public, Sylvania (Toledo) Ohio, "The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do, 7:30-9:30 p.m.
February 15, 2001 Jefferson High School, Bloomington, MN, Talk to parents and staff of the ENCORE Program on "Healthy Parenting And Parenting Traps In The New Millennium."
February 21 - March 28, 2001 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered in Champlin, MN
March 2- 17, 2001 Weeeknd version of above class, offered at the Thunderbird Hotel, Bloomington, MN
March 8-11, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul,MN
March 14, 2001 Interview with Scholastic Magazine on the 7 Best Things Smart Teens Do.
March 21, 2001 Lake Area Counselor's Association, Luncheon Keynote Address, 12:30-2:30 p.m., "Working With Dysfunctional Families."
April 19, 2001 Radio interview on teens, Kansas City, MO
April 25-29, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
May 2, 2001 Talk for professionals--"I'm Disappointed, I Think I'll Shoot You: How The Self Esteem Movement And Other Fads Are Ruining America's Children." Oklahoma City, OK A Chance To Change Foundation
May 2-6, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK
May 11, 2001 Radio Show, 4-5 p.m.
May 15, 2001 Rotary, St. Paul, Minnesota The 7 Worst Things (Good) Parents Do
June 4, 2001 West Virginia University Medical School -- Addiction Training Institute -- Keynote speech and three workshops: 1) I'm Disappointed: I Think I'll Shoot You. How The Self-Esteem Movement And Other Fads Are Ruining America's Children 2) When Is It Anger, When Is It Rage? 3) The Feelings Beneath The Rage: Teaching Emotional Competence As A Therapeutic Solution To Anger Problems 4) Using Genograms In Assessing The Sources Of Anger Problems
June 10, 2001 The Dipsea Race 7.1 miles over the rough terrain of Mt. Tamalpais from Mill Valley, CA to Stinson Beach, if John gets in again this year. Only 1500 are admitted each year. http://www.dipsea.org
June 25-28, 2001 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered at the Kelly Inn, St. Paul, MN
July 12-15, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
July 19, 2001 New Book Manuscript Completed ** First Grandchild Born!
July 25-29 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, California
October 3-7, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
October 24-December 19, 2001 "Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families," graduate continuing education class with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, class offered in Hopkins, MN
November 1-4, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
November 7 & 8, 2001 All Ohio Counselor's Conference -- Keynote Speech -- "Competent Adults Create Children With A Strong Spirit: How To Repair The Damage Of The Self-Esteem Movement By Helping Adults Help Children." Pre-Session Workshop -- "You Can't Be 'Married' Unless You're Old Enough To Date."
November 8-11, 2001 Health Communications, Inc. Partners In Publishing Weekend.
December 1, 2001 9 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Sioux Falls, SD Creating And Sustaining Intimate Relationships: An All-Day Workshop For Couples
December 6-9, 2001 Clearlife/Lifeworks Clinic, Oklahoma City, OK
JOHN'S 2000 SCHEDULE APPEARS BELOW
January 28-30, 2000 John & Linda Friel, "ClearLife Parenting: A 2-Day Program To Clarify The Tough Issues"
February 11, 2000 Chicago, Young Presidents Organization
February 16, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Orange County, CA
February 23, 2000 St. Thomas Class begins
March 9, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Minneapolis
March 15-16, 2000 Taping of professional Parenting Video, published by Allyn and Bacon, part of a series to include John Gray, Harriet Lerner, William S. Pollack, and Harville Hendrix, among others.
March 23-24 , 2000 Dayton/Kettering, Ohio
March 29, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Oklahoma City
April 10, 2000 Minot, ND
April 15, 2000 Las Vegas, Prof'l Counselor Conference On Anger - "I'm Disappointed: I Think I'll Shoot You" and "The Feelings Beneath The Rage"
April 26, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Sioux Falls, SD
May 13, 2000 Washington, D.C. Prof'l Counselor Conference On Anger
June 11, 2000 John runs the Dipsea Race from Mill Valley to Stinson Beach, California
June 21, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Orange County, CA
June 26-29 Graduate class for teachers, etc., with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, on Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Kelly Inn, St. Paul, MN.
July 20, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Minneapolis
July 27, 2000 Clearlife Clinic, Minneapolis ADDED DUE TO DEMAND
September 18-24 Seoul, South Korea, U.S.Army -- Training on parenting and dysfunctional families.
October, 2000 John & Linda's New Book--The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do --Released by Health Communications, Inc. Watch this page for details. Book is in progress and on schedule.
October 4-8 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic -- Sioux Falls, SD
October 11, 25, 26, and November 1, 8, 9 Graduate class for teachers, etc., with credit offered through the University of St. Thomas, on Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families
October 13 Professional Counselor conference on Adolescence -- Chicago
October 18-22 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, Orange County, CA
November 2-5 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic, St. Paul, MN
November 11 The 7 Best Things (Smart) Teens Do Sheraton Midway Hotel, St. Paul, MN
November 16-19 Dayton, Ohio ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic
November 30 - December 3 Oklahoma City, OK ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic
JOHN'S 1999 SCHEDULE
APPEARS BELOW *******
January 13 - 14, 1999 Omaha,
Nebraska and Council Bluffs -- In-Service training for Alegent Hospital System
staff, therapists, etc., on the spiritual dimensions of therapy and case
management. Spirituality And Mental Health: Helping
Clients Develop A Spiritual Orientation
February 24-April 7, 1999 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.
February 17-21, 1999. ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
February 18, 1999 Have A Great Marriage! 7:00 - 9:00 p.m. Talk for the general public. Pathways To Discovery, 1853 Mt. Langley, Fountain Valley, CA 714/964-2267
March 11-14, 1999. Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220
March 24-28, 1999 Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic
Program Chance To Change Foundation, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma,
405/840-9000
April 10, 1999 Our Annual Spring Workshop ** Holiday Inn, Arden Hills, Minnesota, 9:00 a.m. to 12 noon ** HOW TO AVOID THE 7 WORST THINGS PARENTS DO ** Copies of John & Linda's New Book Will Be Available For Purchase. Workshop Cost: $20 preregistered before April 3, 1999 - $25 at the door. Call ClearLife Productions at: (651) 628-0220 or fax your credit card information to (612) 904-0340 or mail check to Friel/ClearLife PO Box 120148 New Brighton, MN 55112-0013
April 16-17 and April 30 & May 1, 1999 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN. Course presented at Wadena technical College, Wadena, Minnesota.
April 21-25, 1999 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691
June 23-27, 1999 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
June 24, 1999 How To Avoid The Seven Worst Things Parents Do, Pathways To Discovery, 714-964-2267, Fountain Valley, California Thursday, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. John & Linda's Books Will Be Available For Sale
June 28-July 1 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.
July 13-14 Book signing, CBA, Orlando, FL
July 22-25, 1999 Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220
August 7, 1999 Book signing at Waldenbooks, Knollwood Mall, Highway 7 & 169, Minneapolis, MN
September 23 Hennepin County Home School, Sexual Offender Unit -- Staff Training, Spiritual Healing And Mental Health
September 24, 1999 Mountain Area Health Education Center, The 7 Worst Things Parents Do, Asheville, North Carolina, professional training
September 25, 1999 Book trade show, St. Paul, Minnesota, Book Signings
September 29-October 3, 1999 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691
October 20-24, 1999 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
October 26 & 27, 1999 Alegent Hospital, Omaha, Nebraska Conference on Spirituality, and One-Day training for professionals. Contact Dr. Jane Smith, Alegent Mental Health, (402) 449-4650
October 28, November 3, 11, 17, December 8, 15, 1999 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.
November 4, 1999 Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220
November 10, 1999 All-day workshop Oklahoma City, The 7 Worst Things Parents Do, Chance To Change Foundation 405/840-9000
November 13, 1999 Saturday All-Day Workshop: The 7 Worst Things Parents Do Rochester, Minnesota, Century High School, sponsored by Rochester Community Education.
December 1-4, 1999
ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Oklahoma City, OK Chance To Change
Foundation, 405/840-9000
*** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998 *** 1998
February 4-8, 1998, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
February 18, March 4, 11, 18, 25, April 1, 1998 , Self Control And Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living In The 21st Century. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN
February 26, 1998 Oklahoma Drug And Alcohol/Professional Counselor Association, 21st Annual Conference, Oklahoma City, OK, 405-793-1545
February 27 and February 28, talk for general public Friday evening, and Lifeworks Alumni Workshop all day Saturday Topics To Be Announced Contact Priority One Resources, Sioux Falls, SD 605/336-3691
March 12 - 15, 1998, Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612/628-0220
April 22-26, 1998 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691
April 27, 1998 Healthy Relationships, Healthy Boundaries, Healthy Recovery 7:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. St. Stephen's Lutheran Church, Co Road E, White Bear Lake, Minnesota, Adult Children Of Alcoholics Meeting
May 2-3, 1998 John's 37th 8th Grade Grammar School Reunion at Ross School, in Ross, California. It is also the 90th Anniversary Of The Founding Of The School.
May 9, 1998, 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 noon Good Shame, Bad Shame...Your Shame, My Shame Our Annual Saturday Morning Spring Workshop, Holiday Inn, Arden Hills (St. Paul) Minnesota Contact Friel Associates/Lifeworks 612/628-0220. As A Public Service, We Are Offering This Workshop For $10 If Pre-Registered, Or $15 At The Door.
June 15 - 18, 1998 Self Control And Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living In The 21st Century. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN, offered in Hopkins, MN
June 24-28, 1998 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
June 25, 1998 How To Mess Up Your Life In Five Easy Lessons, Pathways To Discovery, 7:00 - 9:00 p.m., 18350 Mt. Langley St., Fountain Valley, California 714-964-2267.
July 6 - 9, 1998 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN, offered in Apple Valley, MN
July 23-26, 1998, Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612/628-0220
August 8, 1998 John & Linda's 17th Wedding Anniversary.
September 10-11, 1998 London England, National Association Of Children Of Alcoholics (England). Thursday Evening--Good Shame, Bad Shame...Your Shame, My Shame. Friday all day--Love, Marriage, Sex, And Kids: Supporting Health, Strength, And Clarity In Today's Families
September 17-18, 1998 Chance To Change Foundation, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma-- Thursday evening workshop on relationships, and all-day Friday workshop for therapists on clinical topics such as victim-perpetrator dynamics in dual disorder cases
September 30 - October 4, 1998, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Priority One Resources, 605/336-3691
October 7 - November 18, 1998 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN. Offered in Bloomington, MN.
October 14-18, 1998, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
November 5-8, 1998, Clearlife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 651/628-0220
November 12, 1998 7:00 p.m. INTEGRIS and Chance To Change Foundation (405) 951-2277 Your Relationships Are Better Than You Think Oklahoma City, OK
November 13, 1998 8:30 a.m. - 4:30 p.m. Moving Clients From Victimhood To Adulthood Francis Tuttle Vo-Tech, Oklahoma City, OK (405) 840-9000 CHANCE TO CHANGE FOUNDATION and Integris
November 22, 1998 Oakton Community College Sixth Annual Men's Day, Des
Plaines, Illinois, Keynote presentation: Developing
Accountability, Honor, And Integrity, and workshop presentation: Over-Mothered, Under-Fathered: The Betrayed Male
Syndrome
February 5, February 19, February 26, March 5, March 12, March 19, "Self Control and Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living in the 21st Century" Graduate continuing education class, 2 credits offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN.
March 13-16 , 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, St. Paul, MN. 612-628-0220
April 4, 1997 The Soul Of Adulthood Unity Church Memphis, Tennessee Contact Jim West (901) 726-7396
April 4, 1997 Barnes & Noble Bookstore 6685 Poplar Ave, Germantown, TN 4 - 5:30 p.m. Mini-lecture and book
signing
April 11, 1997, Davenport, Iowa, Healthy Women, Healthy Men, Healthy Relationships. All-day seminar for professionals and the general public
April 11, 1997 Healthy Relationships , Recovery Celebration Alumni dinner 6-9:00 p.m.
Both of the above are sponsored by Genesis Medical Center, Davenport, Iowa 319-421-1000.
April 16-20, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD Contact Friel Associates, St. Paul
April 27, 1997 Sunday, Most People Have Good Relationships And Don't Know It, Colonial Church Of Edina, Edina, MN, 10:30 a.m.
MAY 10, 1997 *** !!SPECIAL PROGRAM!! *** 9:00 A.M. - 12 NOON "YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE BETTER THAN YOU THINK" HOLIDAY INN, ARDEN HILLS, MINNESOTA $20 PRE-REGISTERED, $25 AT THE DOOR *** CONTACT FRIEL ASSOCIATES/CLEARLIFE 612/628-0220 OR FAX 904-0340***
June 12-15, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612-628-0220.
June 23-26 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families Graduate Continuing Education Class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN
July 14-17, 1997 Self Control And Personal Responsibility: Key Tools For Living In The 21st Century. Graduate Continuing Education class offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN
July 30-August 3, 1997 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program, Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California (714) 964-2267
August 7-10, 1997 ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612-628-0220
LONDON, ENGLAND !!*** Friday, August 29, 1997 ***7 p.m. - 9 p.m.***"Your Relationship Is Better Than You Think" Hinde Street Methodist Church Hall, Thayer Street, London W1 *** Contact Hilary Henriques, NACOA, PO Box 64, Fishponds, Bristol BS16 2UH ***Tel. 0117-924-8005 ************************** ************************ Saturday, August 30, 1997 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. "Moving Clients Into Adulthood." Same venue and contact person. Evening talk is for both professionals and the general public. Saturday talk is primarily for professionals, but general public is welcome to attend, and should benefit from the information presented.
September 17-19 Counseling Skills For The New Millennium, Professional Counselor and U.S. Journal Training Conference, Charlotte, North Carolina **John's speaking topics, on Friday, September 19, 1997: Understanding And Treating Victim And Perpetrator Dynamics In Dual Disorder Cases and also Short Term Couples Therapy: Integrating Family Of Origin And Brief Therapy Techniques**Contact U.S. Journal Training at 800/851-9100 ext 220
September 24-28, 1997 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Contact Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN
October 8, 115, 22, 29, November 12, 19 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Eisenhower Community Center, Hopkins, MN 5:00 - 9:00 p.m. Graduate Continuing Education Class offered for credit through the University Of St. Thomas, St. Paul, MN Contact Carrie Gottstein, (612) 509-9631
October 23-26, 1997, ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN 612-628-0220.
October 25, 1997, Saturday, Las Vegas, Nevada Professional Counselor & US Journal Training National Conference on Counseling Skills. John's Topic: "Learned Optimism: Teaching Clients To Reframe Themselves Right Out Of The Victim Role"
November 2, 1997 Sunday, House Of Hope Presbyterian Church, 797 Summit Avenue, St. Paul, MN 10:15 - 11:15 a.m., Powerful Men,Spiritual Men: Becoming The Best You Can Be
November 5-9 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Orange County, CA, Pathways To Discovery 714-964-2267.
December 6, 1997, 1:30 - 2:30 p.m. AA Retreat, Franciscan Retreat House, Chaska, Minnesota, Came To Believe..., Contact Fr. Ken Bartsch, 447-2182
JOHN'S 1996 SCHEDULE APPEARS BELOW*********************
January 13, 1996 Unity South Church, Bloomington, MN 9-noon.
"The Soul Of Adulthood."
January 17-21, 1996 "ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program",
Priority One Resources, Sioux Falls, SD
January 24-25, 1996 Charleston, SC 26th Annual Working Conference of the Pastoral Care Committee of the South Carolina Department of Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse Services
February 7-11, 1996 "ClearLife/Lifeworks Clinic Program -- Pathways to Discovery, Fountain Valley, California
February 8, 1996 Victim And Perpetrator Dynamics presented at the 2nd Annual San Diego Dual Disorder Conference, Hotel Del Coronado, San Diego, California
February 21, 28, March 6, 13, 20, 27 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families, Continuing Education Class offered for teachers, with credit given through the University of St. Thomas, St. Paul, Minnesota
February 24, 1996 Journey In Recovery, St. Christopher's Church, Nisswa, Minnesota, 9-4, Saturday Healthy Relationships, Identity and Spirituality
March 1, 1996 Minnesota Department of Children, Families, And Learning Fourth Annual Minnesota Family Literacy Conference, Marriott Southwest, Minnetonka, MN "What Makes Families Healthy? What Makes Families Hurt?" 9-noon.
March 8, 1996 1st Oregon Dual Disorder Conference, Portland, Oregon, Victim And Perpetrator Dynamics Contact: 206-646-9148
March 14, 1996 3rd Annual Florida Dual Disorder Conference: A Special Focus On Children, Adolescents, and Family. Grosvenor Resort At Walt Disney World Village, Orlando, FL Contact: 800-441-5569
March 16, 1996 Unity South Church, Bloomington, MN The Grown-Up Man, 9-noon.
March 20-24, 1996 "ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program" Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN
May 2, 1996 1st Mid Atlantic Dual Disorder Conference: A Special Focus On Personality Disorders Radisson Plaza Lord Baltimore, Baltimore, MD Contact: 800-441-5569
May 8-12, 1996 "ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program" Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California
May 9, 1996 The Dignity Of Loneliness, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California 714-964-2267
May 17, 1996 Mason City, Iowa Parents United 9-3 Beyond Emotional Flooding, Building Healthy Relationships 515-424-5232
June 20, 1996 "ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program" Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN
July 15-18, 1996 Self-Control And Personal responsibility: Key tools for living in the 21st century. 2 Credit Graduate Continuing Education class for teachers, counselors, psychologists, etc. offered for credit through the University of St. Thomas St. Paul, Minnesota.
July 26-28, 1996 Lifeworks II for people who have done some therapy and family of origin work and are ready to move into healthy adulthood, Sioux Falls, SD, Priority One Resources, 605-336-3691.
July 29- August 1, 1996 Working With Adults And Children From Dysfunctional Families. 2 credit graduate continuing education class for teachers, counselors, psychologists, etc. offered through the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, MN.
Unity Church South, Bloomington, Minnesota, "We Don't Have A Right To Be Happy", talk given at both the 9:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m. church services.
August 8-11, 1996 Lifeworks Clinic, Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, California.
August 8, 1996 "Good Shame, Bad Shame, Your Shame, My Shame", 7-9:00 p.m., Pathways To Discovery, Orange County, CA.
August 15-18, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates St. Paul, MN.
October 10-13, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Sioux Falls, SD, Priority One Resources.
October 31 - November 3, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, CA, contact Lyndel Brennan 714-964-2267.
Thursday, October 31 Pathways To Discovery, Fountain Valley, CA "The Grown Up Man: Heroes, Healing, Honor, Hurt, Hope", talk presented from 7-9:00 p.m.
November 7-10, 1996 ClearLife Lifeworks Clinic Program, Friel Associates, St. Paul, MN
November 14, 1996 Sioux Falls, SD "Most People Have Good Relationships But Don't Know It" sponsored by Great Plains Psychological Services, Sioux Falls, SD, 605-338-8278.
November 15, 1996 Sioux Falls, SD "Moving Clients Into Adulthood", One day clinical training workshop for psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, chemical dependency counselors, ministers, etc. sponsored through Great Plains Psychological Services, Sioux Falls, 605-338-8278.
December 8, 1996 House of Hope Presbyterian Church Summit
Avenue, St. Paul, MN. Fathers and; Sons: Celebrating Mutual Respect, on Honor,
and Integrity 10:15 to 11:15 a.m.